Julie is an ITV Journalist, most easily recognised for her work on the channels ‘Tonight’ programme. She was the first woman to be named Royal Television Society Presenter of the Year in 2010, winning the award for a second time in 2016.
“There was a point in the first lockdown when we were all starting to get a bit more concerned than usual about child mental health. ‘Keep the conversations going with your teens’ we were all advised. Keep a close eye on their moods.
So one evening at dinner after an uplifting chat with our teenage sons about the positives of lockdown - less running around with a schedule, loads of time on the x box, more time with the dog etc - I then asked them ‘OK boys - what’s the worst thing about it?”
The fourteen year old didn’t skip a beat. “I’m just sick to death of the sight of the lot of you”
Well at least he was honest.
In many ways, despite some occasional frank and open exchanges of opinion at home - I’ve been incredibly fortunate. Working in tv news meant I got to leave the house - not only to head to the studio, but out on the road to report. While I got to go to Florida for the US elections, my husband and boys were still - endlessly - stuck at home.
But there have been times I’ve found it hard. Usually when a big story breaks or dominates the agenda, you live and breathe every moment, but then go home, close the door and take a break. This is the one story we’ve not only covered, but lived every moment of, just like everyone else. There have been some nights when the news has been so bleak, I didn’t even want to take it into people’s homes. And you have to make sure that when reporting on the daily death statistics, you never disconnect yourself from the fact that every one of those figures represents a family in grief.
It’s been hard, too, not to able to go to Mass in my parish - to connect with the families we know best and my children have grown up with. Communion of course is at its heart and core; but its the warmth of the physical presence of all my lovely mum friends I miss too. We sometimes walk through the park with one another - but that sense of all being safely gathered in, in our pews in our old church is irreplaceable. But I have sat down to Mass online every week with the boys, often with the dog at our feet, and made time for prayer and reflection. That anchor in my life has got me through the last twelve months.
When Easter comes this year, it will feel like the end of the longest Lent we’ve ever known.”